One of the biggest challenges that young women in online modeling have to face, especially at the beginning of their career, is constantly finding subjects to talk about with their members. If a certain member becomes very loyal and spends a lot of time in the private chat with his favorite girl, sooner or later the usual topics will end. After two or three sessions, they will think they know almost everything about each other: their age, occupation, background, passions, and so on. However, this is only small talk. What they will discover next is the really interesting part: we are talking about Big Talk or deep talk.
Big Talk, as opposed to small talk, deals with more intimate and profound thoughts, helping one show their true self, and letting the other person decipher them. As you will see below, Big Talk usually deals with almost philosophical thoughts and concepts, such as contemplating the existence, finding the most important reason to live, or giving advice on how to deal with different aspects of life. If you use Big Talk in online modeling, you will make your members even more loyal, you will have more interesting conversations, and you will also evolve as a human being.
Here are the most important Big Talk questions you can ask your members in online modeling, divided into 6 separate categories:
Conversation Starters
What do you take for granted?
What is something that overwhelms you?
How have your priorities changed over time?
What does your ideal life look like?
What was the greatest day of your life?
What are you most proud of?
New Friend
Do you think people are basically good or basically bad?
How do you feel about getting older?
Have you ever felt that your world is falling apart?
Do you believe in life after death?
Do you have any tattoos?
Thought-Provoking
Does the study of philosophy ever lead to answers or simply more questions?
At what point is a technologically-enhanced human not a human anymore?
What is the best way to teach people to see the gradients in the world, instead of a simplistic “this is good/bad” view? (you can use your own example from online modeling)
Existential
Do you think immortality is possible?
What are we a part of?
How do you know you are not dreaming right now?
What is the meaning of life?
Do we have a greater purpose?
Philosophical
Can animals reason?
Is love just a feeling?
Is it worse to fail or never try at all? (from our experience, this question is very successful in online modeling sessions)
Which is more real – mind or matter?
Best Big Talk Questions (these are the best ones to ask in online modeling)
What’s the one thing you cannot live without?
When is it acceptable, if ever, to disobey the law?
What do you want your final words to be?
What inspires you the most?
What makes you feel most empowered?
Do you believe in heaven and hell?
Would you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?
How do you think the world will change in 10/50/100 years?
If you had the option to know the date and circumstance of your death, would you?
